Saturday, August 13, 2011
My kids are some of my best teachers.
Thru them I learn sooo much about myself. It always seems to me that God has given me these children to help me GROW..just as much as I am here to help THEM grow.
It is always amazing to be GIVEN the words that I need when I am teaching THEM somrething.
Amazing because ...most of the time the words just FALL out of my mouth.
Most of the time I HEAR myself say things to them..just as I hear them MYSELF.
Today the girls were arguing all morning. They were arguing over the typical things.
Shasha dosen't want to play with Sheba.
Sheba wants Shasha to LISTEN to her.
Shash wants Sheba to stop following her.
"Leave me alone!!! I need SPACE!"
Typical of sisters.
Then today...when Sheba went to the store with Jay for a few hours- Shasha learned a lesson.
She came to me and said, "Mom...there is nothing to DO when Sheba is not here."
I looked at her and smiled.
It was music to my ears. It made me smile INSIDE.
I looked at her and said, "Well Shasha, this should be a lesson for you. Try and remember THAT when she is here and you are annoyed with her. Remember that in life sometimes things look or seem like they would be better another way. But in reality..Life is LIFE. What you are given is what you should be THANKFUL for."
She looked at me and smiled.
But in that moment I was also the student.
Those words were not mine. Those words were given to me.
They came from the Father.
He was talking TO ME..and THRU me- at the same time.
We are all children ....
Children of God.
Some of us are "older" than others.
Some of us are "smarter" than others.
But all of us... are Children of God in constant need of instruction and molding.
No matter how "old" or "smart" we are.