Friday, October 16, 2009

"Fabulous Book Friday"


Shainee let me borrow this book a YEAR ago...


I love it.....

It "talks" you thru LOTS of things:

His Work
His Sexuality
His affection
His Mind
His Choices
His Trials
His Priorities
His Past
His Fatherhood
His Marriage


Each topic is divided into a few pages.

A few CHOICE words.

From "His Sexuality":

For a wife, sex comes out of affection. She doesn't want to be affectionate with a man who makes her feel angry,hurt,lonely,disappointed,overworked,under supportive, uncared for, or abandoned. But for a husband, sex is PURE need.His eyes, brain, and emotions get clouded if he doesn't have that release. He has trouble hearing anything his wife says or seeing what she needs when that area of HIS is neglected.
Wives sometimes have it BACKWARDS. They think, " We can have sex AFTER we get those other issues settled. But actually there is a far greater chance of settling the other issues if sex comes first.

If you have a a understand this!!

My husband TOTALLY FITS into THIS group of men.

(Sorry Jay)...Although I am SURE he wouldn't care if I said it! LOL

THIS is why we as WOMEN, have to make SEX a priority.

We cant wait for the ROMANTIC FEELINGS.

We cant wait for A NIGHT OUT.


We have to realize that it is MUCH MORE of a PRIMAL INSTINCT for THEM.

We have to sometimes ....for lack of better words.....


Yep...Take one for the team.

Im sure that I'm going to hear about THIS!!! LOL

That's right...even when your tired,mad,frustrated.

I am learning that the FREQUENCY of sex should be determined by the OTHER persons needs.
and SOMETIMES mine.

Something is built in the man and the marriage when THIS need is met by his wife.
Something is diminished when it is not.

1 Cor 7:17
As God has distributed to each one, as the LORD has called each one, so let him walk.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Amen my sisteren: Paul tells us: 1 Corinthians 7
1Now for the matters you wrote about: It is good for a man not to marry.[a] 2But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4The wife's body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband's body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife. 5Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. 6I say this as a concession, not as a command. 7I wish that all men were as I am. But each man has his own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.

~bless up