Friday, October 16, 2009
"Fabulous Book Friday"
Shainee let me borrow this book a YEAR ago...
I love it.....
It "talks" you thru LOTS of things:
SOOOOO MUCH GOOD STUFF!!!!!!!!!!!!
Each topic is divided into a few pages.
A few CHOICE words.
From "His Sexuality":
For a wife, sex comes out of affection. She doesn't want to be affectionate with a man who makes her feel angry,hurt,lonely,disappointed,overworked,under supportive, uncared for, or abandoned. But for a husband, sex is PURE need.His eyes, brain, and emotions get clouded if he doesn't have that release. He has trouble hearing anything his wife says or seeing what she needs when that area of HIS is neglected.
Wives sometimes have it BACKWARDS. They think, " We can have sex AFTER we get those other issues settled. But actually there is a far greater chance of settling the other issues if sex comes first.
If you have a a HUSBAND...you understand this!!
My husband TOTALLY FITS into THIS group of men.
(Sorry Jay)...Although I am SURE he wouldn't care if I said it! LOL
THIS is why we as WOMEN, have to make SEX a priority.
We cant wait for the ROMANTIC FEELINGS.
We cant wait for A NIGHT OUT.
or a NIGHT IN ALONE.
We have to realize that it is MUCH MORE of a PRIMAL INSTINCT for THEM.
We have to sometimes ....for lack of better words.....
TAKE ONE FOR THE TEAM.
Yep...Take one for the team.
Im sure that I'm going to hear about THIS!!! LOL
That's right...even when your tired,mad,frustrated.
I am learning that the FREQUENCY of sex should be determined by the OTHER persons needs.
and SOMETIMES mine.
Something is built in the man and the marriage when THIS need is met by his wife.
Something is diminished when it is not.
1 Cor 7:17
As God has distributed to each one, as the LORD has called each one, so let him walk.